Heya.
Yesterday I have heard an amazing lecture of the Zen Master Nissim Amon in Tel Aviv.
This lecture on the subject of the Zen Apple Tree Life cycle was just mind blowing
But it’s actually a lecture about fear.
Simplifying the relationship circle into 6 steps is helpful in understanding how life works.
But actually the whole deal is about dealing with the fear arising in each step.
If you’re single like me at the moment, my biggest tip is this,
If you see something you like,
Approach it, say anything.
Even “Hi, what’s up”.
If you won’t, that’s going to be the last time in your life you’ll see her/him.
Personal power to all.